At Hubbie’s request, we’ve spent the last couple of days chilling. I was itching to visit the Science Museum, called ‘NEMO’, in Amsterdam today but I recognized his need to stay grounded and we had lovely family time instead. As he says, when we chill together, he sees the kids properly. When we go out, it’s constant ‘Where are they?’ anxiety as they rush hither and thither. We’re glorified security guards really, whilst they explore the world. Of course, this is an important parenting job but it’s at least as important, and very enjoyable, to spend time really connecting as a family as well.
Since we don’t want to partake in much of the manufactured entertainment provided here, time is spent all together in the tiny cottage. It’s going very well. The kids play happily with their toys or they make up imaginary stories or games. I’m finding they entertain themselves more easily here than at home, with far fewer toys. I wonder if the fact we are more relaxed means they are too – they’re just happy to spend so much time with us, especially their Dad, even if sometimes it’s simply close to us whilst we each do our own thing. They really come up with some amazing ways to entertain themselves. We got Petra a new pair of Crocs in Amsterdam (for a fraction of the cost of Bahrain) and Petra ‘introduced’ them to all our other shoes when we got home and has continued to have them get to know each other the last couple of days! She’s also still loving feeding the ducks at least a loaf of bread a day! Edward continues to plan the movie he thinks he’s really going to make, called ‘Sword’ and the spy club he really thinks he’s going to run with his friends when we get home.
On occasions, we’ve left the cottage. Hubbie and Edward had a go at Archery yesterday. It was great fun. Because the lesson was fully booked, they didn’t get to shoot as many arrows as they would have done in quieter seasons, but the instructor did a good job of actually teaching everyone some genuine techniques and safety procedures. I was very impressed. The instructor was only about 17 and so articulate, organized and self-assured. I thought, ‘I hope my kids turn out like that’.
The other education Edward has been having is musical. Actually, more than that, it’s learning more about his parents’ days, the ‘old days’ as Edward rather depressingly calls them! Hubbie mentioned the fact that it’s the Rolling Stones’ 50th anniversary. Edward asked who or what they were. So we looked up some of their tunes on ‘You Tube’. Then we took a trip down memory lane and we watched some live concert clips, some music videos for Sting and The Police, Phil Collins, Tina Turner and David Bowie, the Eurythmics, Adam and the Ants, Whitney Houston, Sinead O’Connor. I could have gone on and on. Of all the music we played, he loved ‘Every Breath You Take’ by The Police the most. Good taste! Some of the lyrics and stuff in the music videos and concerts could take a bit of explaining. But he wasn’t much interested in anything other than the music really. But I do see why other families might play safe by only exposing their kids to Christian music or something. But these tunes are so good, the voices incredible and varied and he even had a good introduction to the way orchestras sometime play pop by watching a Sting concert in Berlin. It was great to see strings, the piano even a harp playing very different music to what you might expect.
We continue to enjoy the rain; we even found a way to have our BBQ lunch despite it! Let’s hope tomorrow brings better weather since we intend to venture out again, destination TBC!
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