Homeschooling Adventures in the Netherlands, Part 3 – Month 5 of Learning at Home

At last! We escaped the holiday village and headed for Amsterdam today which is a much more convoluted trip that we thought it would be when we booked to stay here. I had wanted to do something yesterday but it was really pouring with rain so we opted for the indoor swimming pool with mega-water slides: Our idea of hell, the kids’ idea of heaven. By the end of the day, I was ready to scream! So despite the rain this morning, we headed out to meet up with a friend of a friend. It was so successful we spent 6 hours together! How cool is that! She hung out with us whilst we wandered around Waterlooplein and Nieuwmarkt markets in Amsterdam. The former is a flea market with everything from ‘antiques’ to army surplus to crafts to secondhand clothes. The latter is, at least on a Saturday, predominantly a food market. At Waterlooplein, we bought the kids’ unusual souvenirs, which for us is something meaningful to remember the trip by, not the typical tourist tat. We got the kids an ‘antique’ brass telescope and compass (and fun, unusual, colourful plastic watches which they’ve enjoyed practicing telling the time from all afternoon). At Nieuwmarkt, we bought fresh raspberries, delicious spelt gingerbread cookies and all had genuine Dutch ice-cream which was very good (although, surprise, surprise given my recent love affair with Paris, not as good as Amorino in Paris!).

I’ve never seen a triple-storey bicycle parking garage! Actually, I’ve never seen a bicycle parking garage ever, anywhere! Amsterdam is the place to see one though. SO many bikes!

We also enjoyed some stimulating intellectual conversation with our new Dutch friend. Not about the Netherlands but about Palestine, and the situation there, which she knew a great deal about. She had a very interesting perspective, although in hindsight, it was odd to sightsee in one place whilst feeling engrossed in conversation about somewhere quite different! I don’t know how much the kids took in about Amsterdam since my attention was a bit distracted, but I did try to point out the obvious about the gabled, narrow houses, canals and bridges, the predominance of bicycles and steer them away from the red light district. Fortunately, they didn’t ask questions about shop upon shop of drug paraphernalia which you can’t avoid! We are pretty liberal but have friends that aren’t, so would rather our kids not be stigmatized for knowing things that our friends would rather, understandably, their kids didn’t find out from ours, such as the size and style of bongs!!

Thinking about the day whilst sitting on the Metro and then on the drive home from the Amsterdam ‘Park and Ride’, I hoped that the kids might have learned that meeting new people is at least as important as visiting new places. Both our new friend and my hubbie and I had preconceptions about the other and it was great fun to have those adjusted! We had spent some time this morning looking for the other whilst standing a couple of feet apart at our designated meeting spot. She was looking for an Arabic wife wearing conservative, shapeless clothing and a headscarf. I was looking for an Arab with kind of scruffy activist clothing! We both ended up being pale and fair and dressed differently to how we’d expected! Only the fact of us repeatedly looking at our phones tipped us off as to who we both were! Hysterical!

I’m mourning the fact that we were in Amsterdam but didn’t see any of the museums or galleries on my list. But part of enjoying a holiday is managing one’s expectations, especially with young kids, so instead I’m sitting back this evening, breathing a sigh of relief that I got out of here at all! And we’ve made a lovely new friend! And the kids have learned the importance of people as well as places.

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About homeschoolingpenny

Hi and welcome! My name is Penny and I used to live in Bahrain but In November 2012 moved to Dubai and now we live in Granada, Spain! If you want to contact me my email is I recommend you start my blog on 'Day 1' but please enjoy whatever you dip into. 23 February 2012 marked the first day of no more school FOREVER for my two kids. Edward, who is nearly 10 had attended a variety of schools since he was very little. Petra, who is now 6, has never gone to school. On this date we decided Edward was never going back to school and Petra never would go to school. We hope to successfully homeschool from this day forward, although we would consider an alternative school as an option- if there was some amazing Sudbury or other really alternative school. Actually, I prefer the term 'home learning' than 'homeschool' because I don't like to think of school coming into our home. In fact, I hope to go further and guide/learn alongside, rather than teach, my kids using the 'unschooling' philosophy to instill a lifelong love of learning in them. We lived in the Middle East and now Spain all of which are very challenging places to home educate. This is an exciting journey that I used to blog about regularly, at first it was on an almost daily basis. Please join me on our travels and I hope we might be able to help each other out along the way. I certainly hope I can be a source of support and comfort and, in time, knowledge to all potential/presently participating homeschoolers/home educators/unschoolers. Good luck to us all! If you want to read about why I started home educating, why I pulled my son out of a 'very good' private school mid-term, how I felt at the very start and how my philosophy has evolved, please start from 'Day 1' of the blog. Please do post comments at the end of any days that you read. Your opinion is valuable and it's great to start up debate amongst other people commenting too, however old the post. Thank you for visiting homeschoolingmiddleeast.
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