“Why Do You Homeschool?”…”Because I like it!”

I LOVE this suggested reply to the question many of us face at least few times a week. I wish I had thought of it all by myself!

This post gives several suggestions and is titled, “Shutting down the homeschool fight (before it even starts)” but I definitely like that one the best, “When I tell someone that we LIKE homeschooling, it immediately shuts down most potential negative responses.

Because expressing your own joy:

  • isn’t judging their choices, which can make people feel defensive.
  • isn’t an attempt to educate them, which only works if they are open to new ideas.
  • isn’t indicating that you are up for a debate, or that you want to continue that particular line of questioning.

Why do we homeschool?

Because we love it. Thank you for asking.”

Expressing your joy…it’s true. It’s such a positive way to approach a potentially fraught situation. If I find it doesn’t works well, I’ll let you know! But I would be surprised if it didn’t.

 

 

 

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About homeschoolingpenny

Hi and welcome! My name is Penny and I used to live in Bahrain but In November 2012 moved to Dubai. If you want to contact me my email is pjmontford@hotmail.com. I recommend you start my blog on 'Day 1' but please enjoy whatever you dip into. 23 February 2012 marked the first day of no more school FOREVER for my two kids. Edward, who is now 8 had attended a variety of schools since he was very little. Petra, who is now 4, has never gone to school. On this date we decided Edward was never going back to school and Petra never would go to school. We hope to successfully homeschool from this day forward. Although we would consider, if we moved continents (!) an alternative school as an option- if there was some amazing Sudbury or other really alternative school. But I can't see us moving very far for some time. Actually, I prefer the term 'home learning' than 'homeschool' because I don't like to think of school coming into our home. In fact, I hope to go further and guide/learn alongside, rather than teach, my kids using the 'unschooling' philosophy to instill a lifelong love of learning in them. We live in the Middle East which is a very challenging place to home educate. This is an exciting journey that I'll blog about regularly, at first it was on an almost daily basis. Please join me on our travels and I hope we might be able to help each other out along the way. I certainly hope I can be a source of support and comfort and, in time, knowledge to all potential/presently participating homeschoolers/home educators/unschoolers. Good luck to us all! If you want to read about why I started home educating, why I pulled my son out of a 'very good' private school mid-term, how I felt at the very start and how my philosophy has evolved, please start from 'Day 1' of the blog. Please do post comments at the end of any days that you read. Your opinion is valuable and it's great to start up debate amongst other people commenting too, however old the post. Thank you for visiting homeschoolingmiddleeast.
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One Response to “Why Do You Homeschool?”…”Because I like it!”

  1. Calvin John Mcphee says:

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